Polarity requires tension.
Our reproductive instincts (attraction, lust, passion) sometimes need a little "transgression" to get going.
This episode opens with a little intimacy lesson from the ancient Spartans. I also discuss a different take on Betty Martin's Wheel of Consent, and how to "skillfully (consensually) violate".
More on the Spartans in History of Man episode III airing soon!
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161 - Transgressive Polarity: Skillful Violation & When It's Ok for Love to "Hurt"