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Lover Archetype: How to Have Heart Without Losing Polarity
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Lover Archetype: How to Have Heart Without Losing Polarity

A lot of men lose their masculinity when they catch feelings for the feminine. (But it doesn't have to be that way.)

As voted on, and inspired by recent posts in the group, next live discussion is on maintaining polarity in relationship.

We'll focus on 3 stages:

  1. How to maintain polarity in any sexual relationship. (Heightening masculinity via its opposite.)

  2. How to make relationships a vehicle for self-mastery instead of a liability.

  3. The Solo Lover

  • Why women test

  • Reading superficial (social) temptations versus instinctual (sexual) cues

  • Short-gain seduction versus the High Value Lover

  • A physiological cue

  • Attachment Theory hacking-- the right way and wrong way

  • Relationship as a tool for self-mastery

  • Tit4Tat vs. Positive Feedback loops

  • Evoking the Lover while single


Want to apply these principles in your life?

Join the Masculine Archetype Challenge— a 21 day program to summon your testosterone-driven virtues.

It also comes with a complementary 1:1 video call with Ruwan.

www.ruwando.com/archetype

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Ruwando Substack
Ruwando Podcast: Psychology For Men with Brains and Balls
Archetypal masculinity, relationship polarity, practical philosophy and stuff. With Ruwan Meepagala and sometimes guests.